When Love Fails

Trust is a valuable piece of any relationship. When trust is violated it takes a lot of thine to regain it. Seriously, because someone cries and say I'm sorry they automatically expect for things to go back to normal. They generally say why do you keep bring up the past. My thing is how can you forget the past when it's so relevant in your present. Now I'm not saying you throw it in their face every time you feel like it but if your are repeating behaviors from your past that's affecting your present it has to be discussed. Maybe it's just me. When trust is gone we typically hold on to a lover whom we feel has violated you but you stay. People stay for many reasons, kids, companionship, money, status change, Godly vows, etc. Whatever your reason ou stay because you chosed to even after all the lies, infidelity, and whatever it was that caused your relationship demise. I think the of change makes people stay. Think about it, you have invested so much time in that person that you convince yourself it's not worth starting over. All I can say is live for yourself, whatever makes you happy then go for it. Life is getting shorter while pain is getting longer. Lust is the growing emotion while love is slowing losing its true meaning. Don't play games with people hearts, don't lie about your love, don't stay out of presumed obligation. Live free, love freely, love honestly, live integrity. Whether you agree or disagree this is just food for thought, you do he dishes!!!

Live Free. Love Hard.

Physical Love

I appreciate the fact when men understand that hitting women is a cowardly act. It's one thing to raise your voice at her or have a screwed up attitude but when it becomes physical, in my mind you a punk. Seriously, what do a man get out of beating on women. I know from seeing it growing up it's pathetic. Most of my Uncles and my dad hit their women. Like, really dude, you so weak that you have to hit on a woman who primary feature in life is to be soft and cuddly. My dad was stabbed one night in his shoulder for beating on a woman when I was a little boy. I was there and it was ridiculous. I couldn't defend her, I just watched. I saw my uncle hit his sister one night and after years of anger from watching what happened I hit him. He almost lost his sight in his right eye I hit him so hard. I hate to hear about battered women. If you want to prove your manhood hit another man, not some small bodied weak dude but one that would knock the hell out of you. Ladies, if you or someone you know are experiencing a relationship that is physical in the wrong way do something about it. My two younger sisters lost their mother because my dad killed her thru his abuse. It's no excuse and it should not be tolerated. Stand up for yourself, your life, your humanity, your self worth and knock the hell out of him and call the police. Get those type of men out your life. No matter your physical beauty, body size, weight gain, you do not deserve any man hitting on you. If he has to hit you to prove his so called love, it's not love it's control and a worthless man. I have never hit a girl friend or my wife and would never. There is absolutely nothing a woman could possibly due that would make me hit her. Whether you agree or disagree this is just food for thought.

Live Free. Love Hard...

Love with violence
a mouth of silence
leaves you battered and beaten.
He hits you and you believe him
he said you provoked him now you bleeding.
A battered relationship is bad for your health
it typically ends in death
why do you want to be next
he don't love you if he hits you when he's upset.
Take some advice and leave that man
devise your plan
there is another who can love you better than he can.
Remember your self worth
love shouldn't hurt
Don't let him take your life and walk on you like dirt.

TAKE A STAND!!!!!

Live For You....

People live their life based on what others say. Be yourself, love yourself, let know man provide an identity for you. Why is it that we seek others approval about things we wear, things we buy, places we go. Are we living for someone other than God and ourself. What does it matter if your friends don't like that shirt you brought, the car you drive, IT'S YOURS. Everything about you is unique down to your body scent. I have learned over the years, seeking others approval to make decisions for myself will never happen again. People tend to try and live thru you and not for themselves. Free yourself, mind, body, and spirit. If you can not be loved for you, then they are not the people for you. Life's journey is not meant to travel the same path as others, we have our own life compass. As long as we are righteous, spiritually connected, honest and full of self worth, no matter which path we take one day we will all end up at the same destination. Live for yourself, develop self worth, enjoy the life God has given you and live it for you. Life is not followed like people on twitter, it's a written destination we just have to take the journey. Whether you agree or disagree this is just food for thought.

Live Free. Love Hard.