Trust is a valuable piece of any relationship. When trust is violated it takes a lot of thine to regain it. Seriously, because someone cries and say I'm sorry they automatically expect for things to go back to normal. They generally say why do you keep bring up the past. My thing is how can you forget the past when it's so relevant in your present. Now I'm not saying you throw it in their face every time you feel like it but if your are repeating behaviors from your past that's affecting your present it has to be discussed. Maybe it's just me. When trust is gone we typically hold on to a lover whom we feel has violated you but you stay. People stay for many reasons, kids, companionship, money, status change, Godly vows, etc. Whatever your reason ou stay because you chosed to even after all the lies, infidelity, and whatever it was that caused your relationship demise. I think the of change makes people stay. Think about it, you have invested so much time in that person that you convince yourself it's not worth starting over. All I can say is live for yourself, whatever makes you happy then go for it. Life is getting shorter while pain is getting longer. Lust is the growing emotion while love is slowing losing its true meaning. Don't play games with people hearts, don't lie about your love, don't stay out of presumed obligation. Live free, love freely, love honestly, live integrity. Whether you agree or disagree this is just food for thought, you do he dishes!!!
Live Free. Love Hard.
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